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I want to tell you a story, there lived a dog in a city, who used to sit on a table, he used to sleep and sit and guard the houses,
The table was outside which got spoiled due to rainwater and the iron nail came out from inside that wooden table, that dog used to sit the same daily in the beginning the nail came out a little bit and it was prickly too. The dog did not pay attention to the nail. Slowly the nail kept coming out from the table under his weight, his pain kept increasing, but there was a lot of clean space but it does not sit there because his habit was to sit there. And he would sit in his place, even if he was suffering, but because of not tolerating the pain, he barked at night, doing this for a day or two, it became every day, the people living in that city got upset. They killed him one day and drove him away, then he would come after the beating and then come and sit at the same place and keep shouting, in the end, a person thought that why is he shouting, he looked and saw that there is a nail in the table And the dog is doing the wound and because of the pain of that wound he cries and cries, that person corrected the nail which was coming out of that table with a hammer. That day the dog fell asleep and did not cry. That night all the people living in the city slept peacefully.
In the same way, we are also human, whether we have any bad addiction, we complain about drugs or the work we are doing, but we do not want to leave it, no matter how much we cry, we will cry but we will work on it. . We also want someone to come ahead and say that what is the problem, I will solve your problems, while nothing like this is going to happen. You have to solve your problems.
Drug addicts do not leave until the doctor tells them or when they just do not leave, they cannot stop taking drugs, while they will say that they also want to quit, we will cry about everything in front of us but will not give up intoxication. Even here, a person wants that his addiction will leave on his own, but he will not leave it, whereas the addiction will not leave him, the addiction will not leave him.
We humans also keep on crying and weeping, but we will not leave that work or our habit which is bad in us too. We wait, let's see for a few days more right then. Meaning we will cry for that work every day but we will not solve its solution. While we just have to change our habits, everything else will be fine, all we need to do is change our habits. Everything else will change the way you want it to happen, but you have to start with yourself to change.
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For example, if you do not study, you will not be able to do anything, spoiling life, people will not be able to become a doctor engineers. Overall, frighten the children by talking about what has not happened in their future. If you think that children will be scared of this or they will learn from it and do something good in the future, then you think wrong.
Due to the effect of this negative thinking, children fall behind. Because they get scared and worried about their future and study with the same thinking, you can imagine what their mood must have been at that time. It's just your negative thinking that has a bad effect on their mental state.
On the contrary, you give them time to ask about the problems they are facing in their studies. Motivate him to get good marks, be it a gift. Or take it for a walk. This will also motivate the children and will also motivate them to study.
To explain it better, I would like to tell you a small story. By which you will get clear both the negative aspects and the positive aspects.
Assume -
The key to your future lock is lying in an old mansion. Your child or your son or daughter can bring one.
Here parents can explain to their children that how to bring the key of the future / coming future, remember that the key has to be brought to their children only and not to the parents.
Now we come to our story. There are two such children in the story and the parents of their two children.
First, parents tell their children that there is an old mansion, there can be ghosts in it, keep in mind. Our future depends on this to bring the key quickly after escaping many. The matter of ghost sat in the mind of the child, he was afraid to bring the key, he does not even want to go to that mansion and wants to go, but he became frightened by the talk of the ghost, but he still tried to leave that mansion empty-handed. Came back because due to fear he failed to take the key because his mind was in the ghost and could not concentrate on the key.
The other parent just told the child, you bring the key, then we will give you the toys.
The child goes to the mansion in the desire of that toy and with great care looks for that key and brings it after finding the key. Because his brain is engaged in finding more keys with him. He finally gets the key.
The essence of the story-
Always talk to children with positive thinking and inspire them to think positively. He will never fail. The future of our children depends to a great extent on our thinking.
The thinking of parents affects them, you are requested not to let your negative thinking affect your children.
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